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We adopted Farley, back in December. I must say that this is the first time that we have adopted a dog with an abusive history like our Farley. My daughter and I fell in love with him the minute my friend at work sent me his picture. She had the picture sent to her by another friend and both of these ladies have adopted NASAP pets before. We went to meet him and his wonderful "stepmom" Hela, a couple of times with our whole family there- and we knew we wanted to make a peaceful home for this special boy. Farley arrived and was at first very nervous, and waited at the front door for Hela to return! At first we would not make eye contact with him at all- and he slept only in his bed which we kept near the front door, with his back against the wall, it was there that he felt most secure. Farley had the saddest eyes when he arrived- the stories they could tell we did not want to even imagine. He was so submissive it broke your heart to realize that someone had broken his spirit in that way. We placed no demands on Farley and never tried to rush him. We simply gave him peace, shelter, food and most of all love. It has payed off in ways we could not imagine. Today Farely is a very happy dog that greets us and visitors at the door with a wagging tail and eyes that are still wise but no longer sad. He loves his walks with his Dad, enjoys sleeping on the couch, and really loves pets and kisses and his confidence level has soared. Some of his previous traumas have scarred him, such as the sound of a squeak toy simply terrifies him. In March we brought home a puppy, and the two of them are partners in crime. Farley is so gentle and loving with her, and Zoe just can't get enough of her big brother Farely. I could write a book about Farley, and if anyone out there has second thoughts on adopting a special needs pet- please let them know that we have been rewarded with so much joy through the privilege of helping Farley trust us humans again. They really do give us so much more than we give them Thank you to NASAP, and Hela, his great first mom. Please let Hela know that she can email or call anytime to come for coffee and visit. Sincerely, The Lubkey Family ....
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